UPDATE TIME .... This still isn't complicated ... I enjoy (and need) giving and receiving of sexual stimulation with kink. George Burns said "Sex is one of the nine reas for reincarnation. The other eight are unimportant" and since I am not sure about reincarnation I don't want to risk the loss (read on you'll see the relevance). Yes I am married BUT unfortunately (for me) my wife who I love and care for deeply ('yeah right' I hear you cynics out there say) just doesn't do sex anymore (and I mean no more, zilch, zada, rien de tout). How come ... well its all those normal things like done ren, menopause AND she has never really been into it (like so many woman I suspect). I've tried many ways and approaches over many years and yes I am resourceful, loving, empathetic, romantic at times and FORCEFUL when I need to be ... sex is no longer on the menu. So about me .... well I have been here for over three years now, am sexually very much alive, adventurous and have developed a strong taste for kink (giving and receiving) and pushing the boundaries. Despite my maturing years I am fit / trim / energetic / intelligent and am hungry! For me it is about giving the woman pleasure ... a long sensuous massage to get things started .... of course some times traversing that line between pain & pleasure ... such exquisite pleasure. I have ventured into this world as a form of sexual freedom, exploring my sexual fantasies and have indulged with a few very special woman ... uplifting for my spirit and well being (not to mention the mutual pleasure). My relationship with my wife is far more relaxed and I can meet her need for affection without feeling frustrated (you men will know what I mean). Discuss it with your wife I hear you say ... am gently working to this discussing my need for a sexual encounters ... I'll let you know how this goes. I do understand being married will deter many, that's ok, but don't give me your moral judgements ... I don't offer mine. Discretion ++ is expected and given of course. I travel and get to Chch, Dn & Invercargill from Central Otago reaably often so if you would like to simply email / chat, perhaps a coffee or lunch (with some good wine) or more lets see what happens. If you have read this far ..... you should email me ... now!

My Ideal Person A mature woman or couple, 40+ who like to experiment, explore or just savour the moment (like a good Pinot).

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Beatles (man that dates me)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No not at all ... I love ordinary people ... we each have an
interesting life story

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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